I'm sorry you and your family are not getting the support you need and deserve! I really do wish you the best of luck and I respect you for your hard work (both during these trying times and any other time too). I'm not sure where you're from, but in my country, we've regularly been doing a (weekly?) "Clap for the NHS/carers/frontline workers" thing in which we all show our support by applauding outside (safely from our gardens, windows or doors) at 8PM (some people even set off fireworks, honk their car horns or ring bells), and while it doesn't solve your predicament, I hope it shows that we're all behind you regardless of what country you're from. A morale boost is the best we (as non-government officials) can offer, but fingers crossed you're given proper help soon!