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Paislee18

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dating a cheaterPaislee18

Am i stupid for staying with him? I gave him everything and it feels like he spit in my face, but i stil beleive him when he says he loves me, he has cheated, with multiple girls. and the sad thing is that they would talk to me in school and pretend like everything is okay. Everytime i think im done with him and all his lies, i think about what life was like without him=terrible and miserable. if i finally break things off, who will be there to support me? what do i do?? Crying

please help

Paislee1819 Jun 201415comments

Comments (15)

0 SomebodyHe is taking advantage of you! He knows he can cheat whenever he wants AND that you won't leave because you haven't yet. He sounds like a sleaze and a user, sorry
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29 RustHeartGet rid of that jerk
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0 Paislee18i think im going to do it. i mean, its been two years, but ive done things behind his back as well... just not cheating.
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36 KarlachI dated someone exactly like this. Get. Rid. Of. Him. It hurts, I know. You have every right to feel angry or upset or betrayed. Don't believe anything he says - he's only using you. Don't feel stupid about it. You will be much better with him out of your life and you deserve way better. Trust me, someone better WILL come along. If you ever need to talk, mail me.
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55 HibiIf it was just once you could think about giving him a second chance but if this is a recurring thing and with multiple girls then drop him like a hot potato cause he ain't worth the heartache. You don't need a guy to love you so long as you love yourself.
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25 kitties555i agree with alive, hes is not worth the heartache, get rid of him it may hurt for a while but you will find someone better.
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0 Paislee18thank you guys.
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56 MysticalSay byebye to him "cheat me once shame on you, cheat me twice shame on me, cheat me a third time... die"
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52 Harrietyou can do so much better!
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5 Mikaylaleave him. it's true that once a guy cheats, 90% of the time he will cheat again. you don't deserve that crap at all and will end up even more depressed you will be without him.
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15 SpookyBoogieGet rid of that idiot rn. You shouldn't let ANYONE take you for granted. You will definitely find someone better!
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0 ItalianWifey26Oh hun. You don't need him. He does this to get away with it. His lies are worthless. You have too much of life ahead of you to be all worked up about someone that doesn't deserve you. Stick up for yourself and say-(Listen, I don't need you. There are plenty of others that will gladly be with me. Females shouldn't be treated like some toy to be played with)
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30 KillerSay no ._. Big no to him.
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17 TriciaI suggest leaving him. I've been in a similar situation and the guy cheated on me TWICE, and I forgave him for both times, thinking it was just a slip up and he really loves me. Eventually though, he broke it off with me and replaced me with another girl, and despite the times he cheated on me and treated me like crap, I still cried. It's normal. I cried for days. I gave myself time to grieve. I always thought I was alone and HE was my only pillar but after losing him, I started seeing the people around me who has always been helping me without me noticing. After that, things started getting better for me; more opportunities, more freedom, just literally more for me. It may seem bad now, but once you give yourself time to cope, I'm sure you'll do just fine. I wish you luck! (:
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0 sleepysnickersI've seen so many young women, teens, and even older women go through this. Other people can tell you what to do all day long, and you still will do what you want in the end. What I suggest you do is don't think about anyone else, just think about you. Are you happier with him hurting you than you would be with either someone else or by yourself? Honestly so many people feel they need a mate, or they feel like without a mate they'll be all alone in the world. That's not true though, if someone is hurting you over and over how can you ever really be happy with that person? How will you feel 5-10 years from now when he's still hurting you (if he's still around that is) and you start to realise how much of your life you wasted on him? You're young yet I'm assuming since you're in school, and so you have to learn some life lessons still, some of those life lessons are... You need to be confident in who you are, you need to be able to say "enough is enough", you need to stand up for yourself. Happiness doesn't come from someone else, it comes from inside you. Surround yourself with people who truely love you, who care about you, who will support you emotionally, who you can trust and you'll be happier. Sorry if I sound preachy, I don't mean to.
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